My feelings toward 2009, part 2

I sort of borrowed this from Michael Hyatt’s post, “Seven Questions to Ask About Last Year.” But I think this is a great exercise that’s applicable to all aspects of life- personal, business, spiritual.

So, without further ado:

1. If the last year were a movie of your life, what would the genre be? Drama, romance, adventure, comedy, tragedy or a combination?

If you know me at all. If you’ve read only five of my tweets. You would know that it’s a combination of all… except for romance. And guess there wasn’t any real tragedy this year. But with everything from a new car, to odd conversations with my mom, to my vacation adventures over the year, I’d say my life would make one series of entertaining movies.

2. What were the two or three major themes that kept recurring? These can be single words or phrases.

• Stress and Boredom
• Love and Loneliness
• Laughter and Tears

Read: Roller coaster.

3. What did you accomplish this past year that you are the most proud of?

• I bought my own car.
• I survived an entire year living by myself… and loved it.
• I began doing more things by myself- going to church, eating in restaurants, going to the park, etc.

Key word: Independence.

4. What do you feel you should have been acknowledged for but weren’t?

My gusto for said independence. The fact that I’m young, single and driven. Yes, I love my career. But you know what else I’m passionate about? God, music, animals, writing my story, running, relationships.

5. What disappointments or regrets did you experience this past year?

I regret not taking enough chances. Sure, I made some progress in being bold. But I missed out on some great opportunities. So look out 2010, IT’S ON.

6. What was missing from last year as you look back?

My expectations for 2009 were, I guess, way too high. Ultimately, it was a fine year. There were some great moments, but there was a lot of unnecessary stress that took away from those moments. What was missing? Understanding and compassion.

7. What were the major life-lessons you learned this past year?

That even though I hate people, I really love them. From my endearingly goofy and overwhelming family to the idiot strangers who can’t figure out how to drive in the rain, I love them. They provide the dynamic experience that is: LIFE.